Ho’…Whore?

I have been in a running debate with a friend about this word. Is it humiliating in and of itself?

I have to admit…as a sub, humiliation is a hard limit for me. And even though all of my Doms I tried to convince me that the word itself holds no power, I admit I cringe and close some part of me off when they used. Well, most of them. I can give you the said respectfully, it ain’t so bad. And if I am not mistaken…I have allowed the guys to use it once or twice with Kirsty…and I can damn well guarantee you that Bjorn does it that way.

I did come across this meme the other day…and while I am still on the fence about it…I don’t immediately cringe when he calls me ‘his’ whore any more…

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What do you think?

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2 thoughts on “Ho’…Whore?

  1. I love being called my partner’s whore. I like being submissive. I find it such turn on that I am doing whatever they want…
    But if anyone else called me a whore, I would not be impressed

  2. “Whore” and “slut” are hard limits for me. No matter how I try, I can’t get past the negative feelings they invoke. I guess I’ve spent a long time coming to the realization that my submissiveness is something good and positive, and to me me those words mean the opposite. I know that’s not true for many people; this is just my reaction.

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